"Friends" or Foe?

The hit comedy show “Friends” defined a generation with their jokes and plot lines. But within its first year on television in 1994, the producers of the series intertwined a more serious plot: Ross’s ex-wife, who recently came out of the closet. Though she was a minor character, her existence was substantial. Without even having the major success that was to come, “Friends” dared to advertise homosexuality in a place where it was normally ignored.

Though the show took a chance by weaving in the character of Susan, it was still important for the producers not to stereotype lesbians. Susan, the ex-wife to Ross, was thrown into the map when she was pregnant with Ross’s child. Though we do not see her until later episodes, the characters make remarks that while stereotyping lesbians, displayed no negative feelings to her choice of living. Ross comments on “[Susan’s] favorite beer, she always drank it out of a can,” saying how he “should’ve known.” The opinion reflects a widely known stereotype that lesbians are “butch” and therefore display more manly characteristics like drinking beer from a can. However, that seemed to be the only cliché idea the producers used.

Because Susan is not introduced until later in the season, we can only form opinions on her based on the perspective of the  main characters. All characters showed no dissent or lack of support to Susan’s lifestyle decision. Upon hearing the news that Susan was gay, not one character acts startled or taken aback. Instead, they treat the situation as if it were something normal in our society that shouldn't call for a second thought. Because Susan has a partner, Carol, it is evident she plans to raise the child with her. The subject does come up in conversation. Two women raising a child has potential for controversial and perhaps homophobic remarks. However, the characters only worry about Ross, and his part in the child's upbringing. No one finds fault in the women's decision.

Perhaps it was the setting, the exotic and diverse population of New York City. Regardless, “Friends” regarded homosexuality as nothing more than an insignificant detail to a person's life. The show may have started off by categorizing lesbians, but as the show matured, Susan and her partner were free from all conventional images of what they "should be." Laying the groundwork for many television shows today, “Friends” broke the barriers and introduced a gay character to the show and society.